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Luxe Mix Wedding — A Peek Look into My Wedding + Helpful Resources

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For those of you who don’t know me, I got married last
November, 2006.  Those of you who were there I’m sure
recall how chilly it was that night :) But I hope you also retained some
fond memories of the ceremony at Villa Montalvo, the reception on the
veranda, YS and my first dance to “Everytime I Close My Eyes” by
Babyface, the pink roses and peonies, the navy satin table dressings
with ivory satin accents, the matching navy satin bows adorning the
4-tiered wedding cake, and the wedding stationary perfectly coordinated
with the wedding invitations… of course you do right??

Now that you understand my theory behind Luxe Mixin‘, you can see that I’d most definately mix some luxeness into my own wedding! The goal was to incorporate the most luxurious of things with the most practical and affordable in such a way that the wedding guests would never know what was high-end, low-end, and homemade since it would all come together to create an elegant and tasteful experience.

Here is a peek into my wedding as well as all the resources I collected over the span of those 5 months of madness (hopefully some of you going through the process can leverage). Feel free to ask me any questions!

luxemix@gmail.com

The Venue

Villa Montalvo

Saratoga, California

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The Invitations

Letterpress by Hello! Lucky

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Wedding Programs, Place Cards, Menus, CD Favors

Luxe Mix Designs (Me!!) — see below for files

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Wedding envelopes from Envelope Mall

I printed a “Wedding Playlist” on the other side of the dinner menu which had the playlist of our wedding CD with descriptions of why we loved each song on the CD.

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Ribbon was from JKM Ribbon — SOOO much cheaper here than in fabric stores!

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Wedding Flowers

by Jacklyn Le of Le Bouquetier

Bride’s Bouquet — peonies, roses

Bridesmaids Bouquets — roses, callalillies

Groom and Groomsmens’ Boutoniers — callalillies

Other Boutoniers — cymbimdium orchids

Table centerpieces — roses, cymbidium orchids

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Party Rentals

(Tables, Chivari Chairs, Satin Linens, Heaters, Pin Spot Lighting, Up-lighting)

by Classic Party Rentals (SF)

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Bridal Party

Bridesmaid Dresses by Alvina Valenta

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Groomsmen Tuxedo’s by After Hours

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Flower Girls

Dresses by Little Angels (I got these at their store location in the Great Mall, Milpitas)

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Wedding Dress

by Vackyuunzung

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Wedding Garter

by Wedding Keepers

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Wedding Hair and Makeup

by Jonathon Nguyen

vantoc@aol.com

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Wedding Cake

by Bijan Bakery

Flavors: Tiramisu (2 layers) and Chocolate Mousse (2 layers)

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Wedding Cake Mongram Crystal Topper

by Toppers with Glitz

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Catering

Hors d’ Oeuvres and Main Course by Le Papillon

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Photography

by Jade Photo Studio / Jade Studio Productions

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Wedding Favors

Apple iPods

Maid of Honor and Bridesmaid Mugs

Bridemaid Dress Sachets (can’t find the link!)

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Resources

Bookmarks

Below are all the Kaboodle lists I put together while researching/planning my wedding. They contain all the sites I found and liked, or the items I was considering using within my wedding. Yes, I’m obsessive.

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Flowers

Cakes

Bridesmaid Gifts

Wedding Favors

Other Helpful Resources

Wedding Itinerary Template – I must give proper credit where credit’s due. The Choister (aka Mayor of San Francisco since she knows just about everyone here) and her friends supplied this template to me. It was a lifesaver. It provides the basic structure for the entire “day-of” timeline. Hope you don’t mind I’m passing this along Choister!

Wedding Program Illustrator Template
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This is an Illustrator file I created which if you print it front and back on one sheet of paper can be folded and cut to create a pretty cool wedding program.

Wedding Menu

Wedding CD Playlist

Wedding Invitation Etiquette (how to word stuff).

Style Analysis: Fashion Do’s and Dont’s — April 6, 2007

13500521luxemix46200723722pm Don’t!
Camille Winbush at the “Disturbia” Los Angeles Premiere

The cut of Camille’s bouse is cute but with those wide leg jeans she looks frumped out! The flowy tips of the blouse draw your eyes to her midsection… which doesn’t seem to work well on this figure. If I were her I’d stay away from these handkerchief blouses. If you do wear this kind of top it should be paired with more a more streamlined bottom, like skinny/narrow tailored pants or leggings.

I can’t stress how important the fit of your clothes are. If you look closely Camille’s blouse is drooping all over the place.  She could have tied it tighter around her neck.

I’m also NOT feeling this combo of cork platforms with those heavy looking wide leg jeans.

Fashion Look Book Index — All the Look Books I Could Find

For those of you who are looking for ideas on what to wear, this post is for you!

Lookbook_girl What’s a Look Book?
"Look book" is the term used to reference a collection of images that are assembled to help illustrate "looks" or "outfits". It could be a clothing retailer or a fashion magazine, and in my case a blog!, who puts together a Look Book. The main objective is to help inspire the reader with complete looks from head to toe. It makes it easier for the viewer to picture the product when it is paired with other nicely coordinating pieces. Look Books are a fairly new trend but I believe they will become increasingly popular and important to the fashion retail industry.

I haven’t had as much time as I’d like to photoshop together looks for you in my Luxe Mix Look Book so here’s some sites to refer to whenever you want some insta-inspiration on outfit ensembles.

Note: I’ll keep adding to this as I find more. Please help us out by adding any you know of yourselves in the Comments section!

Index of Look Books:

Pink Mascara Look Book (Philip Lim, Diane Von Furstenberg, Ya Ya)
http://www.pinkmascara.com/lookbook.html

Shopbop Look Book
http://www.shopbop.com/lookbook/lookbook_main.jsp?FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=2534374302047459&lookFolderID=2534374302047459

BCBG Look Book
http://www.bcbg.com/spring2007/home.php

Activeendevours Look Book
http://www.activeendeavors.com/lookbook/

Max Studio Look Book
http://www.maxstudio.com/website/lookbook/LookBook-1.htm

Anthropologie Look Book
http://www.anthropologie.com/jump.jsp?itemID=2219&itemType=CATEGORY&all=1

Club Monaco Look Book
http://www.clubmonaco.com/032007/lookbook.asp

Luxe Mix Look Book :)
http://www.luxemix.com/luxe_mix/luxe_looks/index.html

Karmaloop Look Book (Urban/Street Wear)
http://www.karmaloop.com/lookbook/index.asp

Free People Look Book (Urban/Bohemian)
http://www.freepeople.com/index.cfm/fuseaction/products.browse/categoryID/f4fc7ff0-570a-4600-9c16-2e1b8bc0b63c

RavinStyle Look Book
http://www.ravinstyle.com/shop/outfits.asp

Banana Republic Look Book
http://www.bananarepublic.com/browse/category.do?cid=12025&pageID=-1

Some Look Books for Men too!

Billionaire Boys Club (Hip Hop/Urban)
http://www.bbcicecream.com/lookbook/

A Girl’s Guide to Buying and Wearing High Heels and Staying Comfortable

“Nothing has man invented yet that will do a better job than heels at making a good pair of legs look great, or great ones look fabulous.” — Stuart Weitzman

This post is dedicated to all the girls out there who kill themselves every day wearing dangerously pointy 4 inch heels (or those who wish they could). I support all of you and I think we should all band together and start a movement to demand more comfortable heels from shoe designers. I really don’t think it’s fair to have to go through so much pain to get that extra 4 inches of height or to have that sexy slant of the calves. Personally I think that if shoe designers paid a little more attention to our needs they could create more comfortable shoe designs. I have shoes in my closet that are actually comfortable… why aren’t more heels like them? Don’t these things get tested out before going to mass production? How many times have you bought a shoe, taken them home, worn them out a few steps to realize they are totally unwearable because they are cutting into your flesh? By then it’s too late to return them and you’re stuck. I have plenty of brand new shoes to give away if anyone is interested in some foot torture.

I very well may have to start this Women Against Uncomfortable High Heel Movement one day but In the meantime I’ve put together some information/resources I’ve collected over the years which help me endure the pain. I hope these help. If you have some tips yourself I’d love to hear them.

Update this this post — see post on 8/25/08

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T H I N G S – Y O U – C A N – B U Y

Insolia Inserts
www.insolia.com

Insolia

The problem:
You have a comfortable pair of heels that don’t rub your skin abrasively in any areas but after a full day in them the front balls of your feet are throbbing in pain and you have to make a mad dash for the nearest seat along your route to relieve these balls of pain.

The Solution:
A world-renowned podiatrist and an MIT rocket scientist teamed up to create a type of shoe pad that blows Dr. Scholls out of the water (not that I’m dissing on his products because I use Dr. Scholls products as well). The Insolia Inserts seem to work better for me than the average shoe pads. The technology behind them is that they help improve your body alignment and ankle stability while reducing pressure on the ball of the foot, lower back and leg fatigue (see diagram below).

The nice thing about these is that they are clear so they don’t look too funky in your hot heels.

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Dr. Scholls
http://www.drscholls.com/

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Dr. Scholls offers a wide range of foot and shoe products for hammer time feet. If you’ve got blisters, bunions, corns, calluses, or just aching soles the Doc can get you sorted out.

Massaging_gel_heel_cups_1My favorite are these gel inserts for shoes. My left ankle sits a little lower than the average size 6 so shoes tend to rub up against my ankle and that area gets very sore quickly in certain shoes. I found that if I slip a massaging gel heel insert (see below) my ankle is lifted higher in the shoe and pain is gone!

Moleskin_plus_padding_roll Another Dr. Scholl’s product I use is the Moleskin Padding. Basically the moleskin is a padded cloth that has adhesive on one side. You can cut the pad into any shape and then adhere it to your foot or shoe — wherever your shoe is rubbing up uncomfortably on your skin. I bought the value size roll and it’s lasted me quite some time. I find this to be more convenient and affordable than Foot Petals.

Foot Petals
http://www.footpetals.com/

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If you are just looking for some fun shoe pads with cute designs then you’ll like Foot Petals.

Foot Petals offers a wide range of foot pads for various parts of the shoe. I was thrilled when this line came out years ago because it was a step in the right direction. These shoe pads were clearly designed and marketed with females in mind. They are pretty looking things and are all cut specifically for high heels, stilletos, open toe sandals, etc. My main complaint with these is that the adhesive never stays long enough. They are also fairly light on the padding so if you’ve got serious pain in your feet I’d go with something more substantial like the Insolia Inserts.

M O R E – T I P S

Buy 1/2 Size Larger Shoes and Wear Thick Padded Socks

May sound silly but I do this all the time in the cold weather months when wearing closed-toed shoes. I buy my shoes 1/2 larger and then I find the fluffiest, well-padded socks I can find and wear them together. I feel like my feet are bundled up nice and warm + my shoes never hurt, even when braving 4 inch stilleto boots. I started doing this after I got addicted to my Uggs. I was addicted to my Uggs and actually still am. I wish more shoe designers would add that nice wool lining in shoes.

Make the Shoe Salesman Do His Job

Before closing the deal on a pair of shoes make the salesperson work for his/her sale. Tell them you’re not sure if the shoe is comfortable enough. Generally these guys know the insider techniques to make a shoe fit your foot better. I’ve had salesmen add additional padding under the inner lining of shoes or just stretch the shoe out with their machines to break them in a little. Whatever it may be they know best so put them to work!

Invest in Quality Shoes

I read an article in a magazine (I believe it was the Luxury Magazine that Time puts out every quarter) a while back which posed a good question — “Are expensive luxury shoes worth the $$$?”. In other words, do you get what you pay for? The conclusion of the article was yes you do. I have to agree wholeheartedly. Beyond just the fact that they last forever — I have had a pair of Gucci mules that just celebrated it’s 6th birthday! And they are still going strong. They look fabulous and continue to hold together almost good as new. I have re-soled them several times (this is a MUST BTW). Beyond just lasting forever, quality shoes are more comfortable too. They are sturdier and tend to provide more support. Flimsy cheaper materials tend to bend/slip out of shape and hurt your feet. Not to say that all expensive designer shoes are comfortable whatsoever but in general they are better made and thus fit your feet better.

Some good ones to try:
Manolo Blahnik
Jimmy Choo
Gucci

No good (infamous for being uncomfortable):
Christian Louboutin
Dior (hit or miss)

T H E -  M O S T -  C OM F O R T A B L E – S H O E S – A N D – W H E R E – T O – B U Y  – T H E M

Cole Haan

Cole Haan is very foot comfort conscious. They have a partnership with Nike to use the cushioning and shock absorbing technology Nike uses in their sneakers. The most comfortable pair of boots I ever owned were these Cole Haan suede lace up boots. To this day I have not had the heart to throw these out even though they are so overworn and beatup. Secretly I’m hoping one day I can revive them. They deserve a second life. I found this article that talks a little more about Cole Haans latest line: http://www.azcentral.com/style/fashion/articles/092906comfypumps.html

Where to Buy:
http://www.colehaan.com/
http://www.shoes.com/colehaan/

“Charles” by Charles David and “Steven” by Steve Madden
I was speaking with a sales associate at Charles David many years ago when these lines were first launched that they were created specifically to address the comfort complaints customers were issuing on the regular lines. It was about time. Charles Davids have got to be some of the most uncomfortable shoes out there. The Charles line is much better. I never buy from the regular line. But beware not all of the Charles and Stevens are pure comfort. Make sure you try everything on and walk around in them for 5 minutes before purchasing (more on that to come).

Where to Buy:
http://www.stevemadden.com/category.asp?id=133 (Steven)
http://www.zappos.com/n/es/d/722095330/page/1.html (Steven)
http://www.piperlime.com/browse/categorySearch.do?cid=19946&mlink=20195,154204&clink=154204 (Steven)
http://www.zappos.com/n/es/d/722073357/page/1.html (Charles)
http://www.piperlime.com/browse/search.do?searchDivName=&searchText=charles%20david&submit.x=986&submit.y=49&tid=PLGO70271&kwid=1 (Charles)
http://www.endless.com/s?node=242169011&brands=Charles%252520by%252520Charles%252520David|Steven%252520by%252520Steve%252520Madden&bv=1 (Steven and Charles)

Stuart Weitzman
I have a couple of these heels and they are super comfy. I have heard varying results from other girls but I think I read somewhere that he was using Insolia technology in his shoes. One killer looking pair of stilletos I have of his are so comfy I can wal/run all day in them and still smile at the end of the day. They are defn. worth a shot.

Where to buy:
http://www.stuartweitzman.com/
Neiman Marcus

F U R T H E R – R E A D I N G

High Heels: Tips for Looking Hot, Not Hurting!

http://www.azcentral.com/style/fashion/articles/092906comfypumps.html

http://www.uniquelywoman.co.uk/womens_high_heels__shoe_fit_comfort.htm

http://bohanna.typepad.com/fashionfix/2006/11/comfortable_in_.html

http://www.shoeboxers.com/how-to-buy-comfortable-heels/

http://www.prweb.com/releases/2005/7/prweb258601.htm

Note: I’ll keep adding to this post as I come up with any new tips. I’d love to hear what tricks you all use to bear the pain too! Please share with the rest of us.

Short and Mid Length Boots: Flattering for the Calves… or just an excuse for my new Frye Boots?

I don’t know whether it was the oversatisfactory Zappos customer service or the fact that I really love these boots (see yesterday’s post) but I was so inspired by new Frye Boots that I have to talk about them some more (I also loved the Cognac Nappa Boots from RSVP but first things first).

Zappos should have provided a picture of what these boots look like when they are unfolded. I will defn. wear these with anything that exposes the leg lines. If you didn’t know, slouchy mid-calf length boots are really flattering to the leg — See graphic below. Cowboy boots, slouchy leather or suede boots, even Uggs actually especially Uggs, these all help to create more shape around the calf and minimize the midth of your legs.

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The boots in this picture are actually a slightly different boot from Frye but when mine are unfolded they are comparabe, prob. even better since they are wider at the top — more calf-enhancing-gap!

I also wanted to treat myself to picking out a cute outfit to wear with my new boots. I’m all ready for the Sharks game with my hubby tomorrow.

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Where to Shop:

Splendid Sky Heather Mini Dress

Juicy Couture White Track Jacket 

Marc Jacobs Collection Christy Hobo 

Be & D Ruffled Bag w/Chains

Floss a Tee and Still Look Hot

It took me many many years to figure this out or to at least understand why some of my tees got all the love while the rest lay lonely at the bottom of my drawers. The important thing about a tee is it’s neckline. Most tees are cut really high up right around the neckline. This is so not cute. When you’re wearing a tee you’re already dressing yourself down… why would you want to add to the unsexiness of your total look? So my secret to tees is I only buy tees with scooped or vneck lines. I also am fanatic about the perfect amount of stretchiness to the tee (it’s got to cling in the right places) as well as the material has got to be soft (none of that tough thick cotton). My most sacred and cherished tee is actually one that i got from Abercrombie waaay back. The only problem with it is that after one wear the shape gets a little distorted and I have to wash it and dry it to pull it back into the right shape.

What prompted all this tee talk? I was happily shopping away and found this tee on Gap’s site. I’d need to try it on to test it out in person but from the looks of it, this could be rated a high 9 on my tee scale.

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Outfit Composition 101

Snoopy this is for you. A process for picking out your outfit. Try this out and let me know how it goes.

Outfit Composition

Step 1: Lay the foundation. You’ll need a good area to lay things out — like your bed or floor around your closet. This is your work area.

Step 2: Pick a centerpiece for your outfit. This could be anything out of your closet that attracts your interest at that moment. It could be a new pair of shoes you just bought, a warm cardigan that makes you feel cozy, or a bright tee or tank that catches your eye that morning. Whatever it is just pick it out of your closet and commit to it for the timebeing. Lay the item you have selected on the work area.

Step 3: Survey your centerpiece carefully and start visioning what would look good with it. As colors or textures come to mind start pulling out items from your closet that match. Lay each of these new items next to the centerpiece. Once you have articles of clothing laying next to eachother it should start to become more clear what items work with eachother and which don’t. Be daring and pick out things that you normally don’t wear with the centerpiece item. You’ll be surprised that oftentimes things that don’t seem to coodinate actually can make a really stylish look when all pulled together. Your outfit is what grows organically from your starting piece.

Step 4: Continue mixing and matching. It may take some time to get to the point where you have a complete outfit. For myself this can take as long as 30-40 minutes if I’m really picky that day. The important thing here is to experiment. Don’t just grab the same old things you put together normally. Step out of your comfort zone. It is also important you have a solid wardrobe foundation with all the basic items required for layering such as a wide range of neutral colored tops (long and short, various necklines, etc), various black articles (such as black leggings, black pants, black cardigans, etc). We will work on this.

Step 5: Try things on. You may need to try various things on with your centerpiece as you are working through steps 3 and 4. This is where silhouette analysis skills come in. You need to get accustomed to judging whether your look is balanced or not. Your body shape and even face composition is important to pay close attention to.

Step 6: Accessorize. Accessories complete the look. Don’t forget to add earrings, a necklace, a belt, a hat, a bag, and shoes to the outfit. I also count hair as an accessory. Don’t overdo it though. Sometimes you may just need a simple pair of hoops to complete an outfit, and if your outfit is on the busier side you may not need any jewelery at all and you may want to stick to a more streamlined bag.

Step 6: Document. Once you have everything all picked out and you are satisfied with the final outfit take a picture. You can either take a picture of the items laid out on the workspace or one of you wearing them, either way just a way of noting what you put together. You can keep these photos somewhere to refer to if you don’t have time to run through all the steps another day.

Step 7: Put some back into it. Wear your new outfit with confidence. There’s nothing that looks better on you than the right attitude.

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Who's the Luxe Mix?

I wouldn't qualify myself as anything official when it comes to fashion but I might officially qualify as a shopaholic. To keep from going broke I have learned to mix the luxe with the less, the cheap with the chic. I'm a technology junkie in addition to being hopelessly fashion obsessed so while I am a corporate UX designer by day, by night I am an obsessively compulsively working up visions of a splendid online fashion retail nirvana. Contact me if you want my input on how to transform your fashion house into a mass-tech-revolutionized business.